Did I go too far with what I did?

It's kind of an iffy situation. On one hand, I totally, 100% agree with you. But on the contrary, I feel like, instead of holding it in, you should have confronted her from the start. Then again, I've never been in your situation before, but all I can say is that, actually kicking her out of the house is a little too far. All that she did definitely deserved to be angry at, but I feel like both sides are wrong. Talk to her and try to figure something out. Hope it goes okay!